Outfit | Men Tell All

This blog has been hijacked. 😉 I am sorry if you thought were going to hear from Danielle today, but who is ready for a nice change up to hear from a man’s point of view. Here we go…

Life gives you everything you want, but only if you give it everything you have. I found myself out of another relationship…What did I do wrong? Where did we lose love? Did we ever have love? What is love? These were the questions I asked myself after calling it quits with my ex. It created a feeling of depression and loneliness, not because of the breakup, but because I was now back to trying to figure out what Love actually was. I felt I would just give up, and imagined myself carrying on as a single male with no desire to find a woman who mirrored my personality.

I was training a friend, when she brought up the idea of setting me up on a blind date. I rolled my eyes and made it clear I would never find “The One”!!! So I did what any guy would do, I asked the 3 judgmental questions….

Does she look at the world with open eyes?

Does she love the idea of a guy who has no social media?

Does she like to workout?

Ok, so my questions may have been different from other guys, but all of us are simple and straight to the point.. most of the time. I was told a Yes, Maybe, and Kinda. I then asked for the most important part, a picture. I was shown for the first time the beauty I’ve never realized I was looking for. The smile seemed to cover the whole picture, her eyes locked in like I was looking into the gaze of an angel, her body was in the shape of my deepest male desires. I quickly realized I had to give this a shot, even if I knew I had a 0.01% chance.

I nervously picked up my phone, figured out how I wanted to be perceived through my first point of contact and pressed send. There was a feeling of excitement and terror as I awaited the response of the girl I wanted to be the one. I got back a text in the form of comedy and wittiness I had never expected… I WAS HOOKED!!! We texted and kept conversations going that would have died with girls in the past, I felt we had been friends for years. It became clear it was time for the dreaded “awkward” meeting face to face.

Stay tuned to tomorrow’s post to read part 2 of men tall all and our first date.

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